Why Use a Separation & Divorce Consultant
A unique and comprehensive service to support you through Separation and divorce
The Benefits Explained
Significant life changes, like divorce or separation, need to be managed. While often marked by emotional, financial and logistical upheaval, a separation can also present a powerful opportunity.
You have a choice: to be overtaken by uncertainty or to approach this change with purpose, clarity, and confidence.
Without a full understanding of the landscape, you are unlikely to appreciate the consequences of the decisions you make, the actions you take or the overall costs. My expertise and knowledge will allow you to manage and control the process and maximise the outcome.
The Benefits of using a Separation and Divorce Consultant
Maximising the Outcome of a Separation or Divorce
To achieve the best outcome available – whether this relates to the financial outcome, the arrangements for children, your emotional wellbeing or simply managing the separation process itself – you need a thorough understanding of the divorce / separation process from the outset.
You need to identify and exploit your strengths and the opportunities available to you in your unique circumstances.
As with any other change or transition this process can be managed well and, if it is, outcomes will be improved. Timings are often critical. My expertise and knowledge will allow you to manage and control the process and maximise the outcome.
Minimising the Impact of a Separation or Divorce
With any relationship breakdown, emotions are high, and it is often difficult to see the wood from the trees. This can have a bearing on the decisions and choices you make. You must identify, at the outset, the challenges that could impact your progress, and work to mitigate the risks, whether they be financial, emotional or practical.
Outcomes and costs can be negatively affected if mistakes are made or action is taken (or not taken) without you having full insight into the process and the potential implications of your actions and the actions of those around you.
I will provide you with clarity, ensure you stay on track and make sure you do not get sidelined or influenced by others or by your own emotional upheaval.
Reducing the Costs Involved in a Separation or Divorce
By having a clear understanding of your current situation, the process, the outcome you want to achieve and the means of getting there, you will ensure that you are focused and that you can focus those around you, whether they be your legal representative, your financial adviser or your former partner. Significant costs can be wasted if you are reactive to the behaviour of your former partner or disorganised when dealing with your solicitor. It is easy to get sidelined by issues that are simply not relevant to the overall outcome.
By working with me you should manage the process more cost effectively, and significantly reduce the financial impact of the divorce / separation.
Who will Benefit from my Guidance
I work for individuals who want to remain in control of the process of their divorce or separation and to achieve the best outcome available. My approach is designed to manage and empower you, helping you stay in control rather than being overwhelmed by your ex-partner, the legal system, or outside pressures.
I excel at assisting clients where high conflict personalities are involved. These inevitably make the separation or divorce process more challenging and create more risk unless properly managed.
I usually work with individuals but can work for couples if they are confident that they can manage the divorce / separation amicably and are committed to the best outcome for both them and the family.
When to Seek Guidance During Separation or Divorce
I would encourage clients to see me as soon as they are of the view that a separation or divorce is a possibility. This will enable you to be in control from the outset. It will also ensure that issues beyond your control can be pre-empted and managed effectively.
Too often, people come to see me having already taken steps or made decisions that could impact the overall outcome, or having already been subject to decisions and actions by their partner that could negatively impact them.